Let's just deal with Mr. Nice right now.
Okay guys, wake up call... NICE is BORING. Naughty is at the very least, interesting. Here's a few principles to think about when you're in a relationship.
In a relationship, sure, you're going to show love & there are five ways of showing love. But you don't ever need to use the way that you SAY you love her. Show that love day & night sure, make efforts in the relationship that bring you both happiness, but have enough space from each other that your beloved can feel the loss of you each day. When you're giving your girl attention it should be like the sun is shining in her face... (not out of her arse) & when you take that beautiful energy away from her, you enhance it even more. What is a night without the day? Cold... but you know the sun rises. Learn about Tinder dating secrets
What is a nice day for 9 months like in the arctic circle? Boring & dreadful on the eyes. NICE? Do nice things sure but master their absence & work on push pull theory within the frame of relationship. Forget Nice. Long term, Nice is AFC territory.
Here's a simple equation, hope + doubt = passion.
If you give a girl the impression you're going to be around forever you'll run the risk of boring the pants off her instead of taking her panties down with your teeth.
When your time is limited it becomes all the more special for each moment they have the prize of you in sight. You keep her wanting for more because she fears the prospect of you leaving... RELATIONSHIPS ARE NO DIFFERENT!
Be romantic, be adventurous, you can FLIRT with your own GF didn't you know? Be playful, be naughty, be yourself, that's sexy, but don't even get near NICE. You fulfill her needs, emotional security, physical hungers, thirsts... you feed her, you cook for her, you love her, you allow her your body & when you tease her, please her & have her screaming your name you satisfy her...
With any action eliminate the nice. For example, let's say you cook for her & get all romantic, you're not trying to be nice. If you cook for her you're not being nice, you're showing her love. There's nothing wrong with doing nice things, or being nice to someone, there is however, the wrong intention behind it & the wrong application of nice can bore a person if you're not exciting & interesting in equal measure to just being plain nice.
I was a nice guy to the first girl I really loved & I lost her because something more exciting came her way... travel in that case but still, if I'd had been as exciting as the prospect of that travel or had my own threat of going off on my travels at the time I would have been with her for longer. It's about probability & satisfying the human thirst for wonder & well, fittingly enough, Mystery. Not knowing... the most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious.
Nice, predictable, regular... *YAWN* average... usual... *Zzzz* normal.
Passionate! Unpredictable! *Boo!* Extraordinary! Exciting! Unusual, (",) Natural...
Pick one & lose miserable, pick another & live each of your days with passion. Keep her guessing, keep her wanting. Keep taking away. Keep surprising her. Exceed your own expectations but accept that your best is good enough.
We met this weekend, just felt awkward being with her, could tell spark was very faint in general, didn't feel much for this girl anymore. Had sex and after finishing, I just felt like running the fuck away. Realized her attitude to me won't change as I allowed it for too long. I hooked up with another girl twice last week and I saw on her phone she was planning to hookup with some other guy the following day. Too complicated, very dysfunctional, would've ended 1/2weeks later anyway. So I Ended it, a lot of drama afterwards, we both texted thanks for everything/have good life, and now it hurts (even though logically I know she was a horrible match for me, I have limited dating experience, so breakups tend to hurt).